I come to you from my bed, after dropping off my big headed baby @ school because he bought roses for his GF & wanted to surprise her @ her locker this morning. How thoughtful! I have to say he is a chip off the old block, unfortunately the block has become harder & passionate gestures have become a thing of my past.
I have been working diligently to forget & move pass my divorce, but in doing so, I have neglected & chased away those whom I love deeply & dearly, my kids. If you don't know by now, my tribe called mess is my drive. I began my maternal career @ 17 years of age & my daughter, Sade, became my rock & my fuel to continue to push myself to no limit. By the time I was 20, I had 3 beautiful daughters & they defined who I became. At 27 I had 5 kids, the addition of my boys gave me the drive to leave their father alone & forced me to find a career that I would do well in, as an excellent caregiver, the choice was obvious: RN. Having been a mom, made it an easy endeavour to achieve. Getting through nursing school & finishing valedictorian was an honor.
Now, with 2 college graduates, 1 finishing college, another finishing high school & my youngest half way through high school- I feel like my hard work is paying off! My family may not be perfect, but we have each others back. We can pick on each other, but don't let anybody else try to do the same & we pounce!
So I write this brief synopsis on this Valentines day to remind all of you that true love begins with self & family. Having strong family bonds starts with a determined parent & leads to self love & eventually contributes to a solid personal & passionate relationship!
I share with you my pride & joy!
Solid: together we stand strong!
We reppin family!
The fuel to my drive:
Their first accomplishment
My Divas @ Domenican Republic
Yup shopping
My brats + Murray in DR
Sasha's bday
My second pseudo twins
My football & soccer stars
From big to small
Celebrating Dasha's HS graduation
In Taos
Congrats Dasha
Discovering the Aztec ruins, NM
My children & god daughters
My first pseudo twins
My divas
Now you see where we get our good looks from
My Shami & baby Marley
Dasha towering over her mami
My silly boys @ a Pow Wow in Albuquerque, NM
My girls & me taking in Hawaii
Need I say more: my tribe called mess
My brats @ a Hawaiin cliff
CHEESE!
Can you see who is getting taller?
Classic Beauties
Enjoying Fillipino BF in NYC
Congrats Sasha! College grad
Making mami proud!
Family minus Bebe, we miss you
Congrats Sade! College grad
Making mami proud! College grad
Sisters Seize!
I am a proud strong parent!
Silly faces @ TGIF & being mistaken for 4 sisters
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